My thoughts on early marriage

Assalamualaikum and have a nice day .

I am required to write about my opinion on early marriage .Early marriage mean that an individual has to enter into a different and practical life very soon.People nowadays love to marry early and think that early mariage can give them happiness.Based on my opinion ,I am not interest in early marriage because high cost needed ,affect my education and cannot understand each other .

I am not interest in early marriage because high cost needed as our marriage preparation and give burden to who named student.Everyone want to achieve their life goals as well by early marriage .They marry when they are still studying .When a boy still studying and not working ,he knows that he need a lot of money and need to get permanent job as well to get sufficient finance for family .Difficulties in finance can affect the bond in family .That is why studying ,working ,get own house and car then think about marriage .Marriage not only bring happiness ,but also bring disadvantages for us .There is too much money needed for preparation and rise up our marriage .As a husband or wife , both of them need to work , so that not give burden on of them .

Moreover , early marriage can affect our education as we not much educated because think to much about love and family and not know well to survive without parents .Who that marry on early ages usually face the problem that lack of problems ,especially the girls.If you marry early ,but you do not know how to be responsible and treat your husband well ,it can affect your family .It is a fact that education is not only learning but it is the foundation of life and the survival of an individual without it is not possible ,but how a boy or girl get educated ,because the get marry too early.They also do not know well to manage their finance and their responsibility .

Furthermore , cannot understand each other as not matured and lack of compatibility .When a boy around 19 or 20 years old , they are burden with wife and he has to work to raise the family .A girl think that her husband have someone else because not spend his time for her ,but the boy use his time as well to work ,to create a successful life between of them .When one of them not understand ,it will bring on misunderstanding and that why there are too many young widow.When a boy lack of compatibility , many of the wedding relations get destroyed .Two young individuals, who even don’t know each other and their habits are totally varying, are pushed to live together. This increases the chances of low leveled mental compatibility thus destroy their lives.

In conclusion ,early marriage do not bring happiness at all .It give burden to both individual.Becoming a young parents not easily as we think .Early marriage cannot bring happiness because lack of understanding , affect our education and high cost needed.


JUNI IZYAN